爱。生活 part 1

episod 1---朋友
朋友，在我生命中占了大部分，常常会看到书上写--朋友可以有很多很多，但你有多少位知己啊？朋友分很多种：1）看到你时会跟你笑，跟你说hi--bye的，事实上并不熟。2）看到你会跟你说笑，就谈废话的（说笑时是超开心的，但却聊不上心事的）3）跟你有相同兴趣的，就会一起打打球，跳跳舞，但纯粹就是在爱好上有交流的朋友4）看到你并不会跟你交谈，只在电话中跟你交谈的朋友5）喜欢做弄你的朋友6）前面跟你好，后面却会讲你坏话的朋友7）肯陪你一起打机打到早上六点的朋友8）为了在你身上找到好处的朋友9）肯陪你有福同享，有难同当，会关心你，指点你，一同温书，谈心事，一期外游，逛街，讲八卦，一期发疯的知己（但要找酱的朋友并不多）

朋友就像是我的补药，我认识的朋友（以上九种朋友）还蛮多的，因为我一直都会到处跑，到处参加活动，认识不同背景的朋友，从每个朋友身上吸取不同的经验，这是我的爱好之一，哈哈。朋友的确可以有很多，只是看你用怎样的方法与他人交心。你对人好，别人也会对你好，如果人家对我不好，我也不会给他好脸色看的啦。待人处事也是一门学问，谦虚有礼当然是主要，次要的当然是你的内涵，如果一个人开口闭口，满嘴都是脏话，我应该看都不想再看他一眼了。我自己也很奇怪自己，我很喜欢帮人家，不管跟对方熟或不熟，只要是我认识的，我都会帮，有种不敢拒绝人家的要求的感觉。当然能帮的我尽量都会帮，当然更希望的是自己须要帮忙时，已经有人伸手等着我开口，很愿意在我遇到困难时帮助我，但现实就是现实，有多少人心甘情愿帮你啊，你肯帮别人，人家未必会报答你，就算你要求别人帮你，人家也未必答应你。我觉得啊，还是自己靠自己会比较安全，比较实在，等朋友啊，朋友只会放飞机。。。哈哈。但我还是会持有我的热诚，帮助别人，这也是我的座右名之一。就像有一次沙拉文问我：“做莫你讲关心每个人的叻，又关心我，又关心他”，erm...我停了一下，心里想，我好像真的是可以毫无理由去关心每个人。

有时会想自己是不是外冷内热，哈哈，我会很喜欢观察朋友的一举一动（也算是一种关心，了解吧）我总喜欢讲冷冷的笑话逗朋友开心，那算是一种娱乐吧。像是在服兵役的时候，每天到晚上八点时，一大班的华人女生就聚在其中一间房里，haha，开会时间到了，我们就会谈天说地，讲笑话，一起笑大大声，现在找不回酱的回忆了咯。我并不是那种会以行动来表示的人，当然爱情方面更不会主动啦（身为女生，不主动还不是很大的问题啦），我只会默默地祝福朋友，当然还是很观照朋友。

episod 2---学业，前途
我的学业方面吗？幼儿园读了2年，小学六年里读了3间，1年级-4年级在峨仑中华小学，5年级1月-3月在guar chempedak仰高华小就读（在那儿只读了三个月），4月转到离我家只有1km路程的仁岭华小（我读过最近的学校）中学吗？虽然有间中学就在我家前面，但我偏不要读近近的，所以选择在smk sik就读（离我家半小时），甘愿每天花时间等巴士来回学校叻，很奔对不对？哈哈，一读就读了5年，现在觉得我没有后悔当初的决定咯。smk sik真是超棒的，老师棒，环境棒，朋友棒，什么都棒就对了啦。我在smk sik 考了人生中2张蛮重要的文凭，pmr &spm..我因为好玩不爱书，所以成绩也只是中中。我也读过2星期的中六，在双溪大年的smk khir.johari就读，那时虽然只是短短的两星期，但很满意，跟朋友一起租房子住，一起起床，放学后一起吃东西，走路回家，吃晚餐，坐在客厅聊天，洗衣，有空时去打羽球，再无聊就去看电影，哈哈，不错不错。

来到大学了，哈哈，没想到自己那么老了，长大了，现在在吉隆玻的国防大学（universiti pertahanan nasional malaysia)(upnm)就读，每个人听到“国防”两个字就会吓到，就问啊：什么大学来的？当兵啊？适合女生吗？华人多吗？怎样怎样的啊，问题一箩箩，烦死了，我看我应该录起好几个答案，以放便我回答，有人问我时，我打开已录好的带子就好，节省口水和力气，哈哈。此时我又在做了白痴的东东。我在这大学有4个月的时间了，第一次踏进大学校舍，第一次到人生地不熟的地方，又没几个华人同胞，该怎么生存呢？我觉得应该没人比我还要大胆了啦。来这所被喻为“监狱”的大学前，我有讯问过了好几个学哥学姐的议见，他们全都叫我不要来，学哥是100%反对我来的，他们会讲当civilian 好，学姐会说若要来这里，就是当cadets 好过civilian,每个都会问我“y don u consider outside uni"我也不知道为什么，就是不能放弃，算是我的梦想吧。当初我放弃了当cadets的机会，选择只当civilian,我到现在都
还有要当cadets的冲动叻，放不下。其实啊，当cadets有cadets的好，当civilian有civilian的好啦，怎样都是好坏的咯，所谓“ no pain,no gain",总要付出和牺牲的。这每一步都会决定我的将来。好笑的是跟我same intake的男生会支持我进cadets 咯。我就觉得如我进cadets的话，就有人陪我一起stdy grp；若我聚续当civilian,周末就要留在学校训练palapes,后备军。有谁能给我答案？？？？？我今年就在读foundation sains and technology,下个semester会选科，我都不知道自己要选teknologi maritime,or sains computer security,or sains computer cerdas,每个都不错啊，好烦啊。多两个星期，考完了final exam,就放假了，我在大学的1st sem就完了。好高兴哦。

15.10.2010---a perfect day 4 me

Tat day i woke up like common,very early and the mind full of activities...

After baris at c4,then staright go to 10th floor to take calculus exam.The exam was just 1hr,but the qs very difficult (actually is bcoz of i didnt prepare at all for the test la)..haha. After the exam, gt chemistry class..11.00am, finish class, i rushed bek to my hostel to wash my uniform and clothes..The main point is bcoz i wan to go weekend at my auntie's house la. As usual,i go out to lrt station by Ben's car.Then,i took ktm (the worst train in Malaysia) to mid valley.Tat time i juz thk how i wan to spent my time 6hrs here,oh my god.I believe tat i m very intelligent ,haha, i aways know how to find activities for myself (although is alone,i still can walk in the mid valley for 6hrs).I went to carefore to buy my favourite x10000 sushi, and find a seat to eat my sushi,like an idiot rite? (bcoz cant tahan anymor 4 long time didnt smell the sushi)...Hehe,i oso very scared gt ppl cross dere will laugh at me..Oh no,how nice it is....

1st time eat spaghetti,nice

After finish my sushi,i go stroll around and simply shopping in the shops dere.Then,i oso went to THE GARDEN,It was the 1st time i step into dere,damn high class n very cold vif air-cond.I walked fr G floor to the highest floor,then enter every shops to "clean my eyes"...There hv many sport shops,Adidas,Nike,New balance, hooh....i like the shoes very much,and i wan to buy one for myself..(to prepare for penangbridge marathon la).Walk at dere around 2 hrs,then,go bek to Mid valley again,felt like miss spaghetti pulak, go eat spaghetti and hv some drinks,tata my 1st time step into speghetti farm.After tat,of coz go to my lovely bookshop la----MPH..i juz pick three o four books and sit at the small stairs(ways to save money), read the magazines and other book..feel very relax.

Design of THE GARDEN.....SMART

Around 6.30pm,its the time i take again ktm to kl sentral(although very pack inside the ladies coach,but my heart very happy,juz nervous to hv gathering vif MY TAIWAN KMT frenz)..I m the 1st one reach dere,next is Allen ma,and so on...Already 2 yrs i didnt meet them at all,damn miss them, we go to secret recipe and take a seat(my 1st time go to secret recipe)..Im very happy can meet them again after 2 yrs,all of them changed a little bit,but our heart still same,oways 4 in love in 4 car...haha. We chit chat for around 2 hrs,feel enjoy can reconnect vif them,all of them very smart and high-educated..Our members gt 38 ppl.

4 car---4 in love forever






Jennifer Ting-studying dentistry in mahsa,will heading Manipal mayb nextyear
Zheng jing--studying dentistry in Metedics,will heading Manipal mayb next year
Michael-studying Spanish in Help uni,will go Spain mayb next year
Ze khan-studying a-level in Taylor
Jeane yi jin-studying nursing in UK
Jing han-studying phycology in Australia
Mandy-working in Singapore
Cindy-lecturer chemistry in Taylor
WAn xin teoh-lecturer maths in Taylor
Allen mah--still a teacher in primary school(will hv his wedding tis 20 dec 2010)congratz
Min min teh--working as a lawyer in penang firm
Babo ping--studying in kdu college
Man man--studying her form 6 in chung hwa independent high school
Wei xuan--studying her form 6
Hoo yee huan--Studying in INTI
Sin ling-studying in INTI
Elliot pang--Studying doctor in UK
Xi jie--studying in Taiwan bout computering
Alvin ooi--Working in penang,will continue stdy in Taiwan next yr..
phun zai xian--studying engineerinng in UNITEN
me-juz step my leg to UPNM
all of them so great in education,tat much success in their life,i oso will same as them one day...4car,gambateh to all...hooray,happy day...waiting for 4 car next gathering,haha

10.10.10

Today 10.10.10,is a very very special day..
for me, bcoz of two reasons
1. UPNM 1st convocation
2. Taiwan national day


UPNM 1st convo fest
Juz one word to describe-----best!!!!!
haha,dunno is me never go 4 concocation b4 o really wonderful neh? c,how smart he is
The convo fest is from 8-10 OCT,
on the 1st day on convo,all cadets done a great job n push UPNM to a higher place.. around 2000 cadets,how grand it is..


TTS---Tempur Tanpa Senjata
they training every weekend ,
finally they can show out ,they gt THE MALAYSIA BOOK OF RECORDS.
with the most many participants tts.well done and congratz to them.
10.10.10---
I saw many graduates wearing the army ,navy,and airforce uniform, damn smart..
holding flower and present from frenz and family,
i juz can say to myself in heart,when is my turn?haha..


For the graduates,today they r very proud becoz our country highest level ppl--AGUNG
came to b vif them..haha..im juz can enjoy the activities in convo fest..im oso feel very happy to b a member of UPNM..
Taiwan national day
Talk about Taiwan,my heartbeat bcum faster n faster neh,,cham...haha
tats bcoz i had b in Taiwan b4 for 3 weeks time,tat already enough for me to change my mind to bcum a part of Taiwan ,haha,juz a joke la,impossible...Tat memory vif 2008KMT 4car member,i cant frgt in my life ,juz will keep it in my heart..i really miss u guys,4 car members,did u all hear?
me?Taiwan is a country rounded by an island,a beautiful country,a country tat hv almost same culture vif Malaysia.feel warm when i were dere...


The oni different is Taiwan full of chinese words,and Malaysia full of Malay words.haha,tis is a fact...if gt money,gt time,gt chance,i sure will go for Taiwan for 2nd time,3rd time and so on.Luv Taiwan so much...here,i wan to Wish Taiwan "double ten celebration"..on 10.10.10
Wan to know mor about Taiwan,can ask me,or juz waiting my post here.coming soon..

Life can be much better

What for we alive for our life, the main point is enjoy...yea..
For me, life is not juz eat, drink, fun, sleep, and school,
it can be better and better..

From facebook,i found that some of my frenz ,they really very very enjoy their life..
they always join many activities likes hiking, travelling around, helping needed people, and so on..they post their photos on fb, i like to view their ptotos,view their life, bcoz i oso hope my life will be like that..actually,i m a person who r very busy body,haha, frenz that know me for a long time will know tis...

For me, i like to hv a busy life, actually cant say busy, is pack..i dun like to hv too many free time. it juz a waste of time..For example, when im in form 5,my timetable is very pack, after school,will go tuition, if no tuition, sure will play badminton vif frenz, if not, oso will hv function for me,i like tat type of life..compare to now,after class,juz stay in the hostel and doing nothing, only can online and do homework..its very boring la...no purpose for life..

Actually, i gt ever thk to hv a different lifestyle,tat is ---i wan to go hiking, to hv a near distance vif green environment, cycling ,learn swimming,do yoga, read novel, listen music, learn one of the music equipment, travelling, do sports, gt improve in my hip hop dance, busy vif Uni works, blogging, watch movie at cinema if gt free time and many many mor..can do such things juz called life...!!!By the way,i really need someone to do it vif me together,need somebody to accompany me, help me, teach me,advice me...really...i'll be doing tis activities sooner, finding partner...would u ?

I wan tat type of life and i will do it...if not ,my life will becum rust..